Your dick isn’t big enough? I’m a bottom and I have six inches on a good day, yea I’m certain this post will get made fun of….fine, but I’m curious what others think about this. I guess this is directed to Tops. First off does it matter to you how many inches your bottom has, and if it does why? Please explain. Also, does it matter to you if someone you are having sex with isn’t hard while you are screwing them. And please explain why if the answer is yes. Just wondering, would like to hear what you Tops have to say.

You raised some interesting questions! Question one: “Does it matter to you how many inches your bottom has, and if it does why?” For me, kind of! Given that I like to suck dick; I would like to have a challenge (if possible). But this, for me, isn’t that important. Question two: “Does it matter to you if someone you are having sex with isn’t hard while you are screwing them?” This is of major importance for me! In my mind, if the penis is not hard, then I question if the bottom is enjoying himself. My partner tells me that he is in ecstasy in another part of his body. I then ask the question “how does a bottom get off?” I hate that we can’t ejaculate together!
How does the bottom get off? To the responder there – um are you saying your partner who is the bottom doesn’t cum while you are having sex ever. I am a bottom and while I was in a relationship I used to cum all the time either at the same time as my boyfriend or just moments before/after he did either by jerking off while I was gettin laid or in the missionary position the weight of his body pressed up hard against me while thrusting would simulate kinda being jacked off – but I suspect this was more the intense emotional connection combined with the friction allowed me to cum almost always at the same time as he did when we were having sex. But – I can also say, as a single bottom now…..well I really am not very concerned about cumming myself while having sex, I get off more on the fact that I got a guy to cumm. Its sort of more important to me knowing that I have that effect over someone. Maybe its just me.
To Anonymous 4:43, so, where you are now, you are not concerned about cumming (as long as the top cums)? When I top my partner, I like it when we cum together (which is rare)!
A friend of mine shares your opinion and he wants to get the “mangina.” He saids “I never use it [his penis] anyway!”
Being hard while getting fucked has nothing to do with how much pleasure the bottom is feeling. Some guys go flaccid during sex, actually the men that do go flaccid actually seem to enjoy penetration more. Look this stuff up its pretty fascinating.
Is there any truth to the “bottoms who are flaccid during intercourse enjoy bottoming more.” My partner is always flaccid when he bottoms. But I don’t think he enjoys it like that. I think!
I’ll ask him tonight…..
Shouldn’t being fucked and your prostate getting massaged make you hard? I don’t understand why you would be flaccid… I’m kinda new to this please explain!
Um no definitely not…..most guys dicks aren’t long enough to “massage your prostate”. Notice I said most, not all.
oh please, i can massage the prostate with my index finger, which is <3" long.
you just need better lovers
Give me a top with six inches who knows how to fuck anyday.
why only six inches?
I’m a top with 6.5 and I often make guys cum without them touching themselves. Usually missionary or doggy works best for that and I just slam them hard for an extended period of time. Never had someone tell me my dick is too small (but of course I would murder and steal if I could have an 8).