The love of my life told me we can’t be together any more. We’re still extremely close, but not together. Enough time has passed that I feel it is time to move on and start seeing other people. He’s been jealous about me and my new “interests”, but that’s his problem to deal with. My problem: I’ve met a really nice, very decent guy, but I’m just not into him. There’s no reason for me not to be. It has only been a month or so with the new guy. Should I persist a while longer and see if my feelings change, or am I just leading this guy on? I don’t want to give this guy the impression that we might have a future when I know we don’t. Or do I really just need to go with the flow, and “use” him as a rebound? That doesn’t sound like the decent thing to do.
MAKE A WISH
THE TIPPING WELL
WELL READ
- SCARF #100 13 view(s) per day
- LORD ABOVE 13 view(s) per day
- ME, YOU 8 view(s) per day
- QUALITY CONTROL 5 view(s) per day
- MAYBE BUTTERFLY 4 view(s) per day
- KISSING COUSINS 3 view(s) per day
- GOOD KISSER 3 view(s) per day
- SEXUALLY FRUSTRATED 2 view(s) per day
- GAY GRIND 2 view(s) per day
- NO DRAMA 2 view(s) per day
WISHFUL THINKING
- Anonymous on LORD ABOVE
- Anonymous on SCARF #100
- Anonymous on LORD ABOVE
- Anonymous on LORD ABOVE
- Anonymous on QUALITY CONTROL
- Anonymous on QUALITY CONTROL
- Anonymous on MAYBE BUTTERFLY
- Anonymous on STAR WISHING
- Anonymous on ME, YOU
- Anonymous on ME, YOU
THE FISHING POND
Tell him how you feel about how you like him but don’t “like” him… Yet.
Just takes things slow! What’s the rush?
you are done with this guy, let him go now before you really hurt him. time a new guy, then another before you get serious. get some distance from that old past love
I think you’re still not over your ex and I kinda feel you’re using this new guy when you’re not really into him. Put yourself in his shoes, would you want someone leading you on? I think the answer is no.
You’ve got an opportunity here to break it off before things go further.
I agree with the last guy, break it off before a good guy gets hurt
telling him you might not like him does not work even if you do say “yet” because if they are into you that’s just going to snap them out of whatever they are feeling plus you need time to tell if you love him unfortunately sometimes you dont know what you have until its gone… so be cautious and be well mannered because even if you dont end up loving him or being with him the rest of your life remember that his a person just like you and what makes a gay man jaded faster then being hurt by a few if not only one guy who just used you as a rebound; as you so easily say…